A Graying Issue

My mind is working overtime right now. I am feeling a lot of anxiety over this pressing issue that is weighing on me. My oldest daughter has a cell phone and today while cleaning I decided...hey...let me check to see what she has been up to. Let me say I didn't like what I was reading in her text message history.

I need to confront her and talk to her. The hardest thing is that some of the people in her history are kids we know personally and who were bullying her if you will. This is all over some boy that she liked and for some reason it all went sour and now she (my daughter) won't tell me what happened and NOW I have to find out the scoop.

This teenage thing is killing me. She won't even turn 13 until October. Why did she have to grow up so quickly? And how can I stay sane and calm for the next 7 years?

Do other people read their child's phone history? I do pay the bill...Is is snooping? I am so confused and upset and don't want this to blow up. HELP!!

Paybacks are no Fun

My oldest daughter informed me that it is uncool when old people like me listen to the same music as young people.

I was listening to that song by Flo-rida...Right, Round. She was horrified that I had it on my MP3 player. It has a great beat and I love running to it.

Seriously, when did I become an old lady? And why didn't someone tell me? And maybe I will have to start listening to old people music. ( Not sure what that is???)





I knew paybacks would be coming...but so soon? She is only 12.